Meet The Pros – Michelle Esquivel

Meet the Pros – Michelle Esquivel

MIchelle Esquivel

MIchelle Esquivel at the 2018 Margaritaville USAPA National Championships – photo credit to ProPickleball

No doubt about it, Michelle Esquivel is a fierce competitor and dedicated instructor who is totally in love with pickleball. Enjoy! 

Can you list for us your major wins, so we can correctly introduce you to our readers?

2018 USAPA Margaritaville Nationals, Women’s Singles 5.0 19+ – Gold
2018 Tustin Winter Classic, Women’s 5.0 Doubles with Lisa Naumu – Gold
+ Mixed 5.0 Doubles with Jeff Warnick – Gold
2018 International Indoor Championships, Mixed Open Doubles with David Wage – Silver
+ Women’s Doubles Open with Lindsey Newman – Gold
2018 SoCal Classic, Women’s Doubles Open with Gee Gee Garvin – Gold
2018 Engage Golden State Championships, Women’s Doubles Open with Lindsey Newman – Silver
+2018 Mixed Open Bronze with Jeff Warnick
2018 Las Vegas Open, Women’s Doubles Open with Gee Gee Garvin – Bronze
2018 Western Regional, Women’s Doubles 5.0, 19+ with Kris Anderson – Gold
+ Mixed Doubles 5.0 19+ with Jeff Warnick  –  Gold

What paddle do you play with and why?

I love playing with the Engage Poach Advantage! It has the perfect combination of control and power I need for my game.

What is your pickleball story? How were you introduced to pickleball?

While coaching tennis at Orange Coast College in 2015, my fellow colleague text me and invited me to play pickleball over at the courts in Tustin, CA. That was the first time I had ever heard of the sport and I even laughed and asked, “What the heck is pickleball?” Just like most, I was instantly hooked and addicted to the sport. I remember playing my first tournament at the 2016 SoCal Classic in Oceanside, CA, where I fell in love with competing. I knew I wanted to take my game to the next level after last year’s USAPA Nationals. Since then, I’ve been able to show some great results and compete against the top players in the game. It’s been such a blast so far.

What is your preference: playing indoors or outdoors?

I love playing pickleball both indoors and outdoors, but if I had a preference I would rather play outdoors. I come from a Southern California tennis background and love being outdoors as much possible. If not, playing indoors is just as great.

Do you like singles or doubles better? Why?

I definitely enjoy playing doubles more but love the physical & mental challenge of singles.

Michelle Esquivel Mixed Doubles

Michelle Esquivel and Rob Cassidy in Mixed Doubles at 2018 USAPA Nationals

What is your favorite place to play? Why?

I really loved playing at Nationals this year at the Indian Wells Tennis Garden. I grew up watching the tennis pros play at the same venue during the PNB Paribas Open and never thought I’d be competing there for pickleball. It’s an amazing facility for both spectators and players. It was so much fun playing for the fans.

What is your secret sauce?

My tennis background really helps, especially with my footwork and positioning for doubles.

Takako Tourangeau, Lee Whitwell, Michelle Esquivel, Tracie DeJager, Bonnie Williams and Lindsey Newman

Takako Tourangeau, Lee Whitwell, Michelle Esquivel, Tracie DeJager, Bonnie Williams and Lindsey Newman

Any tips for players?

Work on your weaknesses! I personally love driving the ball and hitting hard, so I tend to focus and work on third shot drops and dinks as much as possible. In rec games, I’ll intentionally play balls I would usually feel uncomfortable hitting, so they become easier in tournaments. I also recommend challenging the stronger player on the court during practice games. I know winning is fun, but you’ll only get better by getting out of your comfort zone.

What is your day job?

I just changed career paths from being a tennis coach to teaching pickleball! I was just hired as a teaching pro at the Pickleball Zone Bend in Central Oregon. The brand-new indoor facility just opened a week ago right before Nationals. I’ll be teaching clinics, lessons and setting up events with Lisa Palcic who is the Head Director of the Oregon Pickleball Academy.

Lisa Palcic and Michelle Esquivel

The Oregon Pickleball Academy-Pickleball Zone Bend, with Lisa Palcic and Michelle Esquivel

How many hours a week do you play? How do you make time to play?

If there’s an opportunity to play, I’ll always take it. I’m at a point where I can’t get enough pickleball. I make it a top priority to routinely drill and set up games whenever I can. I try to get in 12-15 hours of games per week.

Any lucky rituals before a big tournament?

I don’t have any luckily rituals before a big tournament, but I prepare myself as much as I can by getting enough rest, making sure I hydrate and stretch.

Do you have any pickleball goals you would like to share?

I’ve accomplished one of my top goals by medaling at Nationals this year. I’m working hard to earn a place on the podium at the US Open and Tournament of Champions for next year.

Anything else you would like to share about your experience being one of the best pickleball players in the world?
Pickleball has surprisingly changed my life in such a positive light. I never thought I’d be so passionate about it. I love teaching it, competing and being a part of its unique community. I admire and respect all the ambassadors, volunteers, tournament directors and people who’ve made the sport what’s it’s become today. I also appreciate all the fans and pickleball addicts who just can’t get enough. We can all relate! Without all of you, it wouldn’t be the same, so a sincere THANK YOU

Meet the Pros – Moira Roush

Meet the Pros – Moira Roush

Moira Roush

USAPA West Regional Moira Roush/Tiener_X Nguyen

Moira Roush is one of the best who plays with the best. Enjoy!

Can you list for us your major wins, so we can correctly introduce you to our readers?

2018 Hawaii Oahu Tournament, Mixed Doubles with Tiener_X Nguyen – Gold
2018 Great Plains Regionals, Women’s Singles 5.0 Age – Gold
Mixed Doubles 5.0 Age with Nabil Merhi – Silver
2018 Oklahoma Senior Games, Women’s Singles, Age – Gold
Mixed Doubles with Jack Thomas – Bronze

2018 USAPA Mountain Regional, Mixed Doubles Skill with Tiener_X Nguyen- Silver
Women’s Doubles Skill with Vivian Edwards – Silver
2017 USAPA Nationals Women’s Singles – Silver
Mixed Doubles 4.5 Age with Tiener_X Nguyen – Bronze

2017 State Games of America, Women’s Singles – Gold
4.5 Mixed Doubles with Tiener_X Nguyen – Gold

What paddle do you play with and why?

I am honored to be sponsored by Selkirk. I play with the new Invikta mid-weight paddle. I love the feel it gives me for dinking and the response I get when I need power. The extra length is also helpful at times.

What is your pickleball story? How were you introduced to pickleball?

My husband began playing pickleball and told me I had to try it. He played for 3 months before I tried it. Each time he went he played longer and longer so I decided if I wanted to see more of him I needed to start playing! Once I played, I saw why he was so excited about the sport.

What is your preference – playing indoors or outdoors?

I prefer to play outdoors. I like the surface and the light is better. Unfortunately, in Oklahoma City we don’t have many outdoor venues.

2018 Hawaii Oahu Tournament – Tiener-X Nguyen-Moira Roush Gold

2018 Hawaii Oahu Tournament – Tiener-X Nguyen-Moira Roush Gold, Lori Tokutomi-Pete Bresciani Silver and Chris Why-Jimmy Lowe, bronze

Do you like singles or doubles better? Why?

I play both singles and doubles. In singles I enjoy out-thinking the other player and the workout that it provides. Playing doubles, I enjoy the teamwork and the challenge to create openings to put the ball away.

What is your favorite place to play? Why?

I loved playing at the North Georgia Pickleball Club in Atlanta. Beautiful setting and lovely courts. Also love to play in St. George, Utah.

What is your secret sauce? Any tips for players?

No real secret sauce, I just try to remember to keep my grip light and bend at the knees. That would be my advice to others besides watch the ball!

What is your day job?

I am lucky that my day job is teaching pickleball! I’ve gone from being a certified tennis instructor to certified pickleball instructor. I love helping people improve their games and have more fun on the court!

How many hours a week do you play? How do you make time to play?

Nahola Fitness Center Pickleball Clinic taught by Moira Roush

Nahola Fitness Center Pickleball Clinic taught by Moira Roush

I play 15-20 hours a week in addition to the time I spend teaching/drilling with students.

Do you have any pickleball goals you would like to share?

My pickleball goals are to compete well in the major tournaments and continue to improve my game. As an ambassador I also want to grow  the sport by introducing it to others as a sport they can play at any age and ability level.

Anything else you would like to share about your experience being one of the best pickleball players in the world?

My favorite part of pickleball is the people I have met all over the country. As we age it’s harder to meet people but pickleball makes it extremely easy and that makes life better!

Meet The Pros – Devin Shoquist

Meet The Pros – Devin Shoquist

Devin Shoquist

Devin Shoquist

Pickleball put a smile on Devin Shoquist’s face from day one.  If you are in the neighborhood, Pickleball Station in Kent, WA, you may just catch his smile. Enjoy!

Can you list for us your major wins so we can correctly introduce you to our readers?

2018 Pickleball Station Pre-Nationals Tournament, Mixed Doubles with Lynn Syler – Gold
2018 Blue Hole Bash in Sequim, WA, Mixed Doubles with Lynn Syler – Gold
2017 So Cal Men’s Doubles with Rob Davidson Age – Gold
2016 Oregon State Games, Mixed Doubles with Camille Schermerhorn– Gold
2016 International Indoor Championship, 4.5 Mixed Doubles with Shonda Schallenberger – Gold

Lynn Syler/Devin Shoquist - Gold

Bryce Ogren/Julie Haney – Silver, Lynn Syler/Devin Shoquist – Gold, Allison Hastings/Douglas Hastings – Bronze

What paddle do you play with and why?

I play with the Selkirk Amped Maxima. I like the reach and feel of the paddle and it gives me the ability to create top spin on my shots.

What is your pickleball story? How were you introduced to pickleball?

I played tennis in high school. I’ve played other racket and paddle sports, including ping pong. Fast forward to 7 years ago, I saw pickleball being played at the local YMCA. I talked to a couple of guys about it and found out how many folks were playing. I just stepped into the action one day and haven’t looked back. I started competing 3 years ago.

Do you like singles or doubles better? Why?

 I like them both. I like singles because it’s a challenge and I am the only one responsible for the results.

What is your favorite place to play? Why?

Devin Shoquist with Rhonda Smith at Pickleball Station

Devin Shoquist with Rhonda Smith at Pickleball Station

I enjoy playing at Sehmel Park, Gig Harbor, WA and Pickleball Station in Kent, WA. 

What is your secret sauce? Any tips for players?

My secret sauce is Hammer Gel, espresso flavor, and my tip for players is to do everything you can to keep the ball in play.

What is your day job?

I am a psychiatrist.

How many hours a week do you play? How do you make time to play?

I play 12-15 hours a week, 3-4 times a week. I make time to play because I find the game to be good exercise and great stress relief.

Do you have any pickleball goals you would like to share?

As a 35+ and 50+ player, I hope to win gold at one of the National Tournaments.

Anything else you would like to share about your experience being one of the best pickleball players in the world?

Pickleball has been an excellent way to have fun and meet new people.

Meet The Pros – Riley Newman

Meet The Pros – Riley Newman

Riley Newman and twin sister Lindsey Newman

Riley Newman and Lindsey Newman, photo credit to Pickleball Channel.

Riley Newman hit the floor running in this auspiciously named sport, and has been a force to reckon with ever since, especially paired up with his twin sister, Lindsey. Enjoy!

Can you list for us your major wins so we can correctly introduce you to our readers?

Riley and Lindsey Newman

Pickleball Station Riley with Sister Lindsey – Gold

2018:
-Canadian National Indoors in Chilliwack, BC – triple crown winner 
-National Indoors in Centralia, WA – Mixed Open Gold with my sister Lindsey 
-Columbia Basin Classic in Kennewick, WA – Men’s Open Singles Gold, Mixed Open Gold with Lindsey
-Pickleball Station Pre-Nationals Tournament in Kent, WA – Men’s Open Doubles Gold 
2017:
-Frontier Days Pickleball tournament in Sun River, OR – Mixed Open Gold with Lindsey Newman 

What paddle do you play with and why?

I play with the Bantam EX-L Pro by Paddletek. This paddle gives me the most power but also steady control at the kitchen line. I highly recommend it!

What is your pickleball story? How were you introduced to pickleball?

I was introduced to pickleball by a great friend in Seattle, Mark Cook (4.5 soon to be 5.0 player). He knew I had played Division 1 tennis and felt if I gave the sport with a funny name a shot I would fall in love. Sure enough, he was right! He took me to a local YMCA where I was clearly the youngest player by many years, not knowing how to keep score or what the heck a “dink” was. But everyone in the pickleball community has been so welcoming to my sister and I, even though we were just a couple of “tennis players.” We entered our first tournament 3 days later and ended up taking home gold. We have been hooked ever since that weekend!

What is your preference – playing indoors or outdoors?

Growing up on Whidbey Island, Washington, the weather wasn’t always the greatest for playing pickleball outdoors. Now that I live in Southern California I can play outdoors anytime I want, which has helped my pickleball game tremendously!

2018 Columbia Basin Pickleball Classic. Riley with Kurtis Campbell, Bronze

2018 Columbia Basin Pickleball Classic. Riley with Kurtis Campbell, Bronze

What is your favorite place to play? Why?

So far in my young career I have played on the US Open center court in Naples, Florida. It was a great opportunity and an amazing venue.

What is your secret sauce? Any tips for players?

Columbia Basin Pickleball Classic, Riley and Lindsey Newman, Gold

Columbia Basin Pickleball Classic, Riley and Lindsey Newman, Gold

I’d say my secret sauce is my two-handed backhand. I am confident from that side whether I want to speed it up with my opponent or dink all day. The tip I would recommend to any beginner or tennis player would be just to play! Go out and play lots of practice games with all sorts of different players and skill types. Receiving coaching is great, but I have learned that being in a competitive environment where you can learn what works and what doesn’t is most beneficial to the learning process.

Do you have any pickleball goals you would like to share?

My dream is to referee Division 1 Men’s college basketball. This works great with pickleball because my basketball games start at 7 pm, so during the day I can play pickleball. When I’m not on a pickleball court, you can find me on the basketball court! My pickleball goal for 2019 is to win a major tournament: the US Open, USAPA Nationals or Tournament of Champions.

Anything else you would like to share about your experience being one of the best pickleball players in the world?

I would like to thank my family for their continued support, especially my sister Lindsey, and also Paddletek for being an amazing sponsor that has provided me with an opportunity to grow in this great game!

Meet The Pros – Ted Meyer

Meet The Pros – Ted Meyer

Ted Myer

Ted Meyer and Jenny Butler

Ted Meyer is very philosophical about the game of pickleball. He is in it to win it! Enjoy!

Can you list for us your major wins so we can correctly introduce you to our readers?

  2018 U.S. Open, Men’s 65+ Doubles with Jim Hackenberg, Gold
  2017 USAPA Nationals, Men’s 65+ Doubles with Lenny Chimino, Gold
                   Men’s 65+ Singles, Silver
*2017 National Senior Games, Men’s 65+ Doubles with Jim Hackenberg, Gold
                   Mixed 65+ Doubles with Diane Baumgartner, Bronze
*2017 U. S. Open, Men’s 65+ Doubles with Ernie Tomlinson, Gold
                   Mixed 65+ Doubles with Diane Baumgartner, Bronze
*2016 USAPA Nationals, Men’s 65+ Doubles with Lenny Chimino, Gold
                   Men’s 65+ Singles, Silver
*2016 Huntsman World Games, Men’s 65+ Doubles with Lenny Chimino Gold
,                  Mixed 65+ doubles with Diane Baumgartner, Silver
                   Men’s 65+ singles silver medalist
*2016 U.S. Open, Men’s 65+ doubles, bronze
                   Mixed 60+ doubles, bronze
*Super senior slam –  men’s 65+ doubles (all 4 majors in 8 month period)

Ted Myer Jenny Butler Gold

2018 USAPA Great Lakes Regionals: Debbie Mascarin-Dan McLaughlin Silver; Ted Meyer-Jenny Butler, Gold; Yvonne Hackenberg,-Jim Hackenberg Bronze

What paddle do you play with and why?

Tempest paddle discontinued

Tempest Paddle

I play with the Paddletek Tempest Paddle because it gives me the most feel on my dink shots and third shot drops.

What is your pickleball story? How were you introduced to pickleball?

I started playing pickleball in 2012 at The Villages, FL. But the first year I was there (like many others), I was essentially just playing tennis on a pickleball court. So, I always tell people I’ve only been playing for 5 years the right way.

What is your preference – playing indoors or outdoors?

I prefer to play outdoors. Like many of us at my age, we can see the ball much better outside.

Do you like singles or doubles better? Why?

I prefer to play doubles. I only play singles at the national tournaments. For me, singles is fun for the first few matches, then after that it becomes a lot of work.

What is your secret sauce? Any tips for players?

My secret sauce is not really a secret, but you would be surprised to know how many don’t utilize it. My philosophy is not to feed to your opponent’s forehand. Hit 90% of the shots to their backhand. Make them beat you with their backhand. Also, when dinking, make sure your shot bounces in the kitchen so that your opponent cannot attack it.

How many hours a week do you play? How do you make time to play?

Since I’m retired, I play 4 times a week, 3 to 4 hours at a time. Playing that much does require me to schedule an hour nap in my daily routine, however. (Lol.)

Any lucky rituals before a big tournament?

I don’t have any lucky rituals before a big tournament. I got severe leg cramps in my last match on the first day of the first U. S. Open. Since then I do make sure I stay hydrated with plenty of water and Gatorade.

Do you have any pickleball goals you would like to share?

My goal is to stay healthy enough to play competitively for another 5 years.

 

Meet The Pros: Ty Petty

Meet The Pros: Ty Petty

Ty Petty, 2018 US OPEN

Ty Petty, 2018 US OPEN

Ty Petty loves this game and he is ready, willing and able to share his love of pickleball with anyone who steps on the court. Enjoy!

Can you list for us your major wins so we can correctly introduce you to our readers?

2018 Minto US Open, Mixed Doubles Over 40 with Lucy Kitcher – Gold
2018 Logan Stanley Memorial Classic, Nashville, TN, 5.0 Men’s Doubles with Jeff Carlson – Gold
2018 Logan Stanley Memorial Classic,Nashville, TN, 5.0 Mixed Doubles with Mary Helen Atkins – Gold
2018 North Carolina March Madness, Concord, NC, 5.0 Men’s Doubles with Jesse Simon – Gold
2017 Piggleball Tournament, Lexington, NC, Mens Open Doubles with Jeff Carlson – Gold
2017 USAPA Atlantic South Regional, Griffin, GA, 5.0 Men’s Doubles with Brad Tursky – Bronze
2017 Battle on Beech, Beech Mountain, NC, 5.0 Mixed Doubles with Stephanie Lane – Gold
2017 USAPA Great Lakes Regional, Kalamazoo, MI, Mixed Doubles 5.0, 35-49 with Kat Smalley – Bronze

What paddle do you play with and why?

I just switched from the Engage Blade to the new Engage Poach Extreme. I have played competitive table tennis my whole life so I am used to having a paddle that is only 6 inches wide and I love the long skinny paddles for their aerodynamic feel. The Poach Extreme still has a lot of power when I need it, but I really needed the excellent control it offers for third shot drops, volleys and dinks. It gives me a chance to compete at the highest level. I have been sponsored by Engage for over a year and am very thankful for their support.

What is your pickleball story? How were you introduced to pickleball?

My wife Cindy actually discovered pickleball for our family, and we immediately became addicted. It combined the best elements of table tennis and badminton, which we’ve played for years in the backyard. This has been a great enhancement to our marriage and I am proud to say that my wife is my favorite pickleball partner, although we stick to recreational games. Unlike playing competitive table tennis, you can play pickleball with anyone and have a fun and competitive game, while getting good exercise.

What is your preference, playing indoors or outdoors?

My first introduction to outdoor play was a tournament in Las Vegas on the roof of a hotel and casino, with over 30 mile per hour winds. It was so windy the nets were blowing over and across the court until they hit a fence, even though they were weighted down at the base. Since then, I have slowly come to embrace playing outdoors and definitely prefer it over indoors. Although all of the organized play in our area is indoors, I try to get outside to play every chance I get.

2018 US Open, Lucy Kitcher/Ty Petty, Over 40 Mixed Doubles - Gold

2018 US Open, Lucy Kitcher-Ty Petty Over 40 Mixed Doubles, Gold, Takako Tourangeau – DJ Howard, Silver

Do you like singles or doubles better? Why?

I preferred singles when I first started because it was easier to figure out strategies using skills from other racket sports, but I prefer doubles now since I have come to understand and embrace smart pickleball strategies.

What is your favorite place to play? Why?

My favorite tournament is the Logan Stanley Memorial Pickleball Tournament in Nashville, TN. They play great music in the gym, provide an amazing assortment of snacks, and the tournament is run by one of the best referees in pickleball, Don Stanley. Two of the most beautiful places I have played are Beech Mountain, Nort Carolina and Hiawassee, Georgia.

What is your secret sauce? Any tips for players?

Ty Petty selfie

Ty Petty selfie

If you want to improve, it is more important to be able to slow the ball down than to speed the ball up. I wish I had learned that a lot sooner so I hope it helps someone else as they climb up the pickleball ladder.

What is your day job?

I am an Agriculture and 4-H Extension Agent for the University of Tennessee Cooperative Extension Service.

How many hours a week do you play? How do you make time to play?

I usually play 2-4 hours per week, but it’s tough because most of the organized play in our area is in the mornings. We finally have some outdoor pickleball courts with permanent lines on four tennis courts, so we have been able to play in the evening more often. Pickleball is my main source of exercise and the practice helps me stay sharp for tournaments, so I make it a priority to find a day or two to play most weeks.

Any lucky rituals before a big tournament?

My most important ritual before any tournament is to make sure all of my tie-dye headbands are clean and ready to go.

Do you have any pickleball goals you would like to share?

My goal is to win another Mixed Doubles Gold medal and also win a medal in Men’s Doubles next year at the US Open. I am also looking forward to teaching several clinics this fall around East Tennessee.

Anything else you would like to share about your experience being one of the best pickleball players in the world?

I have been blessed to have an opportunity to play this sport with some of the world’s best players and will continue to share my love for the sport with anyone who steps on the court.

Meet The Pros – Kale Klein

Meet The Pros – Kale Klein

Kale Klein and Randy Coleman

Kale Klein and Randy Coleman

Kale is SERIOUS in his commitment to the game! Enjoy!

Can you list for us your major wins so we can correctly introduce you to our readers?

Riverton, Utah Bronze 4.5
Star Valley 5.0 Men’s Doubles with his Dad, Kyle Klein, Gold 4.5 mixed doubles
Logan Bridgerland Cash valley  5.0 Men’s Doubles with dad
Farmington Summer Classic 4.5

Kale Klein

Kale Klein in action

What paddle do you play with and why?

I play with the Amped S2. It has the biggest sweet spot for me and has the best control and power of any paddle I have tried. I have a lot of respect for the Barnes family and how they have been so kind to me, offering their sponsorship through their company, Selkirk Sports.

What is your pickleball story? How were you introduced to pickleball?

I started 7 years ago, at age 6. We visited my grandparents in Sun City. Playing pickleball was okay when I played the first time. The second time, I really got into it. We went home and drew lines to start playing pickleball. I started competing in tournaments at age 8. I love a good rally. I’m strong in the net game. I like it when the points are longer with more rallies, and I enjoy all the nice people I meet.

What is your preference – playing indoors or outdoors?
Definitely outdoors!

2018 Star Valley - Nick Galanis/Matt Dimock - Silver; Kale Klein/Kyle Klein - Gold; Jevan Weeks/Jesse Roberts - Bronze

2018 Star Valley – Nick Galanis/Matt Dimock – Silver; Kale Klein/Kyle Klein – Gold; Jevan Weeks/Jesse Roberts – Bronze

Do you like singles or doubles better? Why?

I haven’t medaled yet in singles, but I like both!

What is your favorite place to play? Why?

My favorite place to play is the Brigham City courts – it’s about 30 feet from my house.

Brigham City Sports Complex - Pickleball Courts

Brigham City Sports Complex – Pickleball Courts

What is your secret sauce? Any tips for players?

I like to look like a little kid when I come out on the court.

What is your day job?

 I am a student in 8th grade.

How many hours a week do you play? How do you make time to play?

I try to play 4x weekly. I play pickleball in school. Not a lot of younger people to play with outdoors.

Any lucky rituals before a big tournament?

My ritual is to make sure I match head to toe with Selkirk gear.

Do you have any pickleball goals you would like to share?

I’m very competitive. I’m in it to win it: USAPA Nationals, Fall Brawl, etc. I have a goal to BEAT BRIAN ASHWORTH!

Brian Ashworth

Brian Ashworth

Anything else you would like to share about your experience being one of the best pickleball players in the world?

I am thankful for this sport. It has helped me to be a better player. I have learned how to talk and partner with older adults and how to be a good competitor.